Believe I Can
ENGLISHJULY 2024PSYCHOLOGY
8/7/20243 min read


Have you ever doubted yourself? You faced a career crossroads that felt like a dead end, or a new opportunity that made your stomach churn with nervous excitement. Here is the truth: you have the power within you to achieve incredible things. Just like Dhirubhai Ambani's unwavering belief propelled him to build a business empire, you can unlock your own potential.
I discovered this firsthand when I decided to run for president of my local Rotaract Club. My previous job felt like a hamster wheel – the same tasks, same deadlines, same soul-crushing monotony. I wanted to crave a new challenge, something that would make a real difference, so I quit my job. But the thought of becoming president was daunting. Could I handle the responsibility? Juggling family commitments, career goals, and leading a thriving club seemed impossible.
One lazy Saturday afternoon, I was flipping through my favourite tabloid, the Mid-Day, when a familiar contest caught my eye – a music trivia quiz. It was a chance to win a compilation cassette (remember those? don’t start to guess my age now). Now, I would not call myself a music aficionado, but hey, it was a free shot. To my surprise, I aced the quiz! The prize arrived a few days later, a simple cassette with a worn label. As the first song began playing, I lay back, ready to unwind. But then, something unexpected happened.
The opening chords of "I Believe I Can Fly" by R. Kelly pierced through the room, and a spark ignited within me. It was not just the soaring melody; it was the lyrics. "I believe I can fly; I believe I can touch the sky..." With each repetition, the song resonated deeper. It became my mantra. I could not stop myself from hitting rewind, listening repeatedly, each time feeling a surge of determination. I envisioned a transformed Rotaract Club – a vibrant place for young minds, a place where we could empower each other and make a lasting impact on our community. Long before “all is well” became viral, “believe I can” powered my actions.
Of course, not everyone shared my enthusiasm. Some dismissed my ambitious plans as a "pipe dream." But instead of letting negativity hold me back, I used it as fuel. I reached out not just to my supporters, but also to those who doubted me. After all, a dedicated team needs diverse perspectives. To my surprise, many of the "fence sitters" were swayed by my passion and vision. Together, we built an incredible team – a mix of experienced leaders and energetic newcomers. We brainstormed ideas, planned projects, and tackled every challenge head-on.
The road was not always easy. There were moments of doubt, setbacks, and late nights fuelled by kattan kaapi (black coffee) and sheer determination. Yet, the memory of that song, the power of "believe I can " kept us going. We held onto our vision of a thriving club, a beacon of hope in our community.
A year later, as I stood on stage receiving the "Outstanding President" award, tears welled up in my eyes. It was not just the recognition; it was the journey, the sense of collaboration and shared vision that had transformed us all. We had done it! Leading the Rotaract Club in the millennium year was not about achievement; it was about the power of belief, resilience, and the magic that happens when people come together with a shared purpose.
This experience taught me a powerful lesson that I continue to leverage even today:
Believe in Yourself: No matter the obstacles, never give up on your dreams. Remember, even the most impossible feats begin with a single, unwavering belief.
Embrace a Positive Attitude: A positive outlook can help you overcome any hurdle. It's the fuel that propels you forward, even when the path seems daunting.
Build a Strong Team: Surround yourself with people who inspire and support you. Remember, a team is more than the sum of its parts; it is a collective force that can achieve anything.
You have the potential to soar high like an eagle. But it all starts with your inner voice. Just go out there, embrace your dreams, and remember the power of self-talk. The only limit is the one you set for yourself. Let it be a constant reminder "I believe I can".
- Dr. Brillian S. K.